Where has common courtesy gone? In an age of smart phones, ear pods, and rushing to the next appointment, do we have time for courtesy?
Paul told Titus, “to show perfect courtesy toward all people” (Titus 3:2). Courtesy is shown to others because we are gentle and humble. This is the concept and idea of Paul’s thoughts here to Titus. True humility causes us to show concern and love to all people, not just those like us or those we desire their favor.
Christians should be the most courtesy people in our community. Here are some ways we need to revive common courtesy and teach it to our youth.
- Use traditional words like “please,” “thank you,” and “excuse me.”
- Don’t interrupt when someone else is speaking.
- Let others know when you are running late or your plans change.
- Be aware of your surroundings in public and don’t talk or play music too loudly.
- Consider your attire and the respect you show with your dress and attitude.
- Be respectful to those older than you with terms like “Mr” and “Mrs” and “Sir” and “Ma’am.”
- Use good table manners.
- Respect other people’s property. Don’t take something without asking permission and return what you borrow.
- Clean up after yourself. Don’t leave trash or a mess where you have been.
- Take your ear pod out and look someone in the eye when they are speaking to you.
- Open and hold the door for someone entering or exiting.
- Allow others to pass rather than pushing and hurrying by someone in a store.
- Be kind and thoughtful to others!
These actions will go a long way in fulfilling Paul’s instructions of showing “perfect courtesy toward all people.” Parents, let’s teach and model these actions for our children. Let’s not let common courtesy die, but let it be common in our community!
