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The Dangers of Idle Mind

It was a delightful spring afternoon, King David was lounging around the palace with nothing to do. Typically, he would have been with his army, because this was the time of the year when kings go out to battle, but David stayed home. His kingdom was blossoming. Everything was going so well, he could take …

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The World’s Inconsistent Message on Sex

Our culture is sending so many mixed messages. Each day contains a story about sexual misconduct. Another high profile leader is accused of inappropriate actions toward a woman.  In worse stories, extra-marital affairs or tales involving prostitutes are sadly all too common.  The politically correct view is to condemn these  inappropriate acts. The world demands …

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Pre-Marital Sex: 5 Reasons You Shouldn’t Give Privilege without Commitment!

Sex is a privilege, not a right!  We are created sexual beings that have a desire for sexual gratification.¹  But it is not a right.  God intended for us to enjoy the privilege of sex when we make the commitment in marriage to another person.²  When sex becomes a part of a relationship outside of marriage …

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When Was the Last Time You Studied Sex?

This topic may make you a little uncomfortable, it certainly does me, after all my mom and mother-in-law both read my blog!  But I decided to post anyways.  I felt the same way when I was planning what our Wednesday night men’s class would study this last quarter. I have been teaching the class for 10 …

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A Biblical Picture of Pornography

This past weekend 50 Shades of Grey movie was released.  A new movie based on the book.  The three-book series has sold over 100 million copes worldwide.  But it is known for its erotic theme.  This movie and book just represent our culture’s growing indulgence of sexually-charged material.  Pornography is a huge problem in our …

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Sexual Abuse: What the Church Can Do!

When was the last time you heard a sermon on sexual abuse?  We preach against illicit sexual activity, but what about our concern for the victims of abuse?  Yet 1 in 5 girls and 1 in 20 boys are victims of child sexual abuse.¹ Some even suggest a higher number. Jesus quoted from Isaiah when he said, …

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The Irrationality of Adultery!

It is irrational for two trains to be driving on the same track headed directly toward each other to think they will not hit, yet this is the exact thoughts of an adulterer! The affair will come out!  You cannot remain in both relationships for long!  The famous story of David committing adultery with Bathsheba …

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Bedroom Expectations Brought To Marriage

We did a marriage retreat this past weekend with a local church.  It was lots of fun and we hope a great blessing to the couples who attended.  I wanted to share one concept that seemed to resonate with the couples regarding the sexual relationship. We come into marriage with various expectations. It seems that …

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