Category: Marriage and Family

A Many Colored Coat and Love

Who is the favorite in your family? Did you give an answer? Favoritism in families didn’t end years ago, it is a problem today. In fact, all parents have to struggle with trying to not show favoritism. Kids often feel like the parents have favorites. Favoritism is shown to kids based on gender, temperament, birth-order, …

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Delighting in Your Child

I am a parent of four between 14 and 6. I know what it is to have kids arguing with each other and constantly playing in the house. I have three boys, so I am always playing referee to their indoor ballgame, wrestling match, or Nerf war. The longest part, and most uphill climb of …

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The “Silicone Ring” View of Marriage

I left for a seminar this week. I unintentionally left my wedding ring laying on the dresser. I wear my wedding ring everyday.  It is a white gold band. There are no diamonds on the band, but it is still valuable. Obviously, the ring means much to me personally. But I forgot it, so I …

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Your Role In-between the Past and the Future

We are a culture that esteems youth and the here-and-now. We move at a rapid pace and spend little time reflecting on the past or dreaming about the future. We have too much to do in the present! As we begin 2019, I want to share two stories with you that challenge you to see …

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Merry Christmas 2018

Thank you for reading my blog in 2018. My family wishes you and yours a Merry Christmas. May God bless you this holiday season.

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Where Affairs Start

Where do affairs get started?  Affairs are not what either spouse wanted. They got married because they loved each other and wanted to spend their lives together. They vowed their love and fidelity to one another before God and family. They surely never thought it would come to this point with one spouse cheating on …

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Reasons I Take My Kids Deer Hunting!

10 reasons I take my kids deer hunting.

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Ten Tips for a Strong Marriage in the Chaos of Life

Life is crazy busy for many families. The pressures of life can easily infringe upon the closeness of a married couple. This temptation is most high once kids come into the family. When we should be doing the most to keep a strong marriage, we tend to become sidetracked with career and our kid’s pursuits. …

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Why You Should Want a Well-Worn Yard!

Many families focus on having a well-manicured yard.  Some dads spend hours fertilizing and mowing the lawn.  Many mothers love to work in the flower beds.  A well-manicured yard is the expectation for many nice sub-divisions.  Last year, I was at an elite country club surrounded by a private housing community.  The yards looked incredible. …

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One Choice

Samson, the famous strong man of the Bible, made plenty of mistakes early on in his life (see Judges 13-16).  His problems tended to revolve around women.  He was a strong man physically, but a weak man morally.  He struggled with pride, sexual temptation, and anger.  He failed to listen to his parents when they …

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